which DATABASE mangement can i use with java to create databbase

which database management can i use with java .. like MYSQL or SQLITE OR SQL SERVER or oracle ... etc

and i'm use to Kurdish or Arabic language

anyone can help me that

i'm already used SQ-LITE but i want be success database , i like to use oracle but does not allow Kurdish or Arabic character \

hpMyAdmin tried to connect to the MySQL server, and the server rejected the connection. You should check the host, username and password in your configuration and make sure that they correspond to the information given by the administrator of the MySQL server.